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第33章幸福的真谛
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TheEssenceofHappiness
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IliveinthelandofDisney，Hollywoodandyearroundsun.Youmaythinkpeopleinsuchaglamorous，funfilledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso，youhavesomemistakesaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Mapeoplestillequatehappihfuhisthatfunandhappileinon.Funiserienganaessiserie.Itisdeeper，memotion.
Thelegtothebeliefthatafunfilled，painfreelifeequalshappiuallydimiheircesofeverattainingrealhappiness.Iffunandpleasureareequatedihenpaiediinfact，theoppositeistrue：Moretimesthannot，thingsthatleadtohappinessinvolvesomepain.
Asaresult，maheveryehatarethesourceoftreehappihepaiablybroughtbysugsasmarriage，raising，professio，religiousent，civicorcharitablework，andself-improvement.
Askabachelorwhyheresistsmarriageeventhoughhefindsdatingtobelessaisfyi，hewilltellyouthatheisafraidofmakingaent.Forentisinfactquitepainful.Thesinglelifeisfilledwithfuure，ext.Marriagehassuent，buttheyarenotitsmostdistinguishiures.
Similarly，coupleswhoottohavearedefavorofpainlessfunoverpainfulhappiheyeoutwheravelwherevertheyaslateastheyleswithinfantareluckytogetawholenight’ssleeporathree-dayva.Idon’tknoarentswouldchoosethewordfuntodescriberaising.
Butcoupleswhodeottohaveeverexperiehepleasureofhuggiugtheminight.Theyhejoyofwatgachildgrowuporofplayingwithagrandchild.
Buttheseformsoffundonottributeinanywaytomyhappiness.Morediffideav，raisiiionshipwithmywife，tryingtodogoodintheworld—willbringmemorehappihaneverbefoundinfupermahings.
&andingahattruehappinesshasnothingtodowithfuhemrealizationsweevereto.Itliberatestime：nowweorehourstoactivitiesthatelyincreaseourhappiliberatesmoney：buyingthatnewcarorthosefawilldonothingtoincreaseourhappinessless.Aesusfromenvy：wehatallthlamorouspeopleweweresosurearehappybecausetheyarealwayshavingsomuactuallymayall.
&weuhatfubringhappioleadourlivesdifferebe，quiteliterally，lifetransf.
我住在好莱坞迪斯尼乐园，那里全年阳光普照。
你可能认为生活在那么富于魅力，充满乐趣的地方，一定比其他地方的人更幸福。
如果这么想，你可能对幸福的真谛有些误解。
很多聪明的人仍将幸福等同于乐趣。
其实，乐趣和幸福的共同之处极少，或者说根本就没有。
乐趣是行为过程中的感受，而幸福是我们行为过后的感受，它是一种更为深刻、持久的感情。
人们坚信充满欢乐，远离痛苦的生活方式就等于幸福。
实际上，这样反而减少了他们获得真正幸福的机会。
如果欢乐和愉快等同幸福，那痛苦就等同不幸。
其实恰恰相反，多数情况下，能带来幸福的事物往往包含诸多痛苦。
所以说，许多人所逃避的艰难困苦恰恰是真正幸福的源泉。
这些人害怕那些必定会带来痛苦的事情，如结婚、抚养子女、提高专业技能、承担宗教义务、社会服务或慈善事业，提升自我等。
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